tag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:/blogs/blog?p=1Blog2021-09-18T12:16:33-06:00Bradley Weaverfalsetag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/67506452021-09-18T12:16:33-06:002023-10-16T08:55:31-06:00My Interview With the BigRedneck Review<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/93ca2af6bed7018a2761b1c96144cddf447dd884/original/big-redneck-review.jpg/!!/meta:eyJzcmNCdWNrZXQiOiJiemdsZmlsZXMifQ==/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p>I was recently interrogated by Big Red, for his <a contents="BigRedneck Review" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://www.facebook.com/thebigredneckreview">BigRedneck Review</a>.</p>
<p>Big Red found me through my old band <a contents="'Ryan Chrys and the Roughcuts.'" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="http://www.roughcutsband.com">'Ryan Chrys and the Roughcuts.'</a></p>
<p>This is probably the most in-depth interview I've ever done, so enjoy. Here's how it went down.</p>
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<p>HAVE YOU EVER BEEN INTERROGATED BEFORE?</p>
<p>No and I'll thank you for getting that light out of my eyes.</p>
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<p>WHERE WERE YOU BORN AND RAISED? WHAT IS ONE OF YOUR FONDEST MEMORIES? WHAT DO YOU MISS THE MOST ABOUT IT?</p>
<p>I grew up in Bethel, PA. It's a tiny farm town about an hour and a half from Philly. So many great memories, but one has got to be riding our bikes everywhere… all day… every day.</p>
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<p>WHAT WHEN AND WHERE WAS YOUR FIRST GIG? </p>
<p>My first public performance was at an open stage at East Stroudsburg University in Pennsylvania. ESU is a dry campus, so they had a 'club' called 'Mocktails.' There were about 10 people there and I vaguely remember playing one original tune (that I've long since forgotten) and then butchering 'It's a Shame About Ray' by the Lemonheads.</p>
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<p>PERFORMING LIVE IS AWESOME WHEN EVERYTHING RUNS SMOOTHLY… WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR EXPERIENCES THAT WEREN’T SO AWESOME THAT YOU JOKE ABOUT NOW?</p>
<p>We (the Rough Cuts) were doing an afternoon gig in a closed parking lot behind the former 'Casselman's.' I'm not sure what the event was or why we were there, but we were slugging through our set for about a dozen spectators when a car (which I guess had been parked there before they closed the lot), decided it was time to leave and backed right into the crowd and backed over a woman right in front of the stage. (I should note that the woman walked away with minor injuries.) Needless to say, we stopped the set, packed up, and went home. So, I would chalk that up as a pretty bad show and one I probably won’t be joking about.</p>
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<p>IF YOU WERE TO ATTACH A SUPERHERO OR CARTOON CHARACTER TO YOURSELF WHO WOULD YOU BE AND WHY?</p>
<p>Hmmmm. Garfield seems to have a pretty sweet gig. I’m pretty sure I could get on board with his lifestyle.</p>
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<p>WHAT IS THE MOST UNUSUAL/EMBARRASSING SONG YOU SING INSIDE YOUR HEAD THAT YOU DON’T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO KNOW ABOUT?</p>
<p>Whenever I hear the phrase 'halfway there' I immediately default to Bon Jovi's 'Living on a Prayer.' Not sure it's embarrassing, but I only sing it out loud about 65% of the time.</p>
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<p>WHAT IS YOUR MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT ON STAGE?</p>
<p>So many, but here's a standout: Rapid City Public Library. (Didn't expect that one, did ya?) I do several different programs such as 'The History of Musical Instruments,' 'Story Time,' 'Super Fun Concert,' and 'Let's Write a Song.' This was my first time doing the songwriting program, in which I spend about 15 minutes discussing songwriting (inspiration, structure, chord progressions, etc). That leaves about 35-40 minutes for us to write a song together and perform it. For my first workshop, I was expecting just a few people, but over 70 people (kids and parents) showed up! I was quite nervous, but I dove straight in and everyone came along. Once we got rolling, it just clicked and everyone, young and not so young, contributed. We came away with a fun little tune called 'Recess.’ <a contents="(Listen to ‘Recess’)" data-link-label="" data-link-type="track" href="/track/2054363/recess">(Listen to ‘Recess’)</a> The 'Write a Song' program has since become my favorite.</p>
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<p>ASIDE FROM BEING A KICK ASS MUSICIAN FOR OVER 25 YEARS, TOURING WITH RYAN CHRYS AND THE ROUGHCUTS, YOU ALSO HAVE A FEW MORE MUSICAL SIDES TO YOURSELF THAT I FIND VERY INTERESTING AND COMMENDABLE . YOU HAVE TWO ALBUMS UNDER YOUR ALTER EGO- SONNY TRENCH FOOT. YOU JUST FINISHED A BOOK “LET’S PLAY GUITAR” AND YOU ALSO ENJOY WRITING CHILDREN SONGS. EXCUSE ME, I SHOULD USE YOUR WORDS “FAMILY FRIENDLY SONGS”</p>
<p>There is such a negative connotation to the phrase 'children's music' (visions of Barney the Dinosaur!) so I've taken to the term 'family-friendly'. I always keep the parents in mind, as they will have to listen to the tunes over and over, so I try to write tunes that are musically pleasing for all ages with lyrical themes meant to entertain and educate.</p>
<p>On a related note, yes I have written a guitar instruction book called <a contents="'Let's Play Guitar'" data-link-label="Let's Play Guitar" data-link-type="page" href="/let-s-play-guitar">'Let's Play Guitar'</a>. It’s a guide for parents to learn guitar with their children. I also created several free videos as a companion to the book. I've also recently released a coloring book based on my songs/lyrics called <a contents="'Fill the World With COLOR!'" data-link-label="Books and Activities" data-link-type="page" href="/books-and-activities">'Fill the World With COLOR!'</a> Families have been having a lot of fun with the book and I love when they send me photos of the pages their children have finished. I was also inspired to create some word searches and other fun activities that you can find on my <a contents="website" data-link-label="Books and Activities" data-link-type="page" href="/books-and-activities">website</a>.</p>
<p> As for my alter-ego <a contents="'Sonny Trench Foot,'" data-link-label="Sonny Trench Foot" data-link-type="page" href="/sonny-trench-foot">'Sonny Trench Foot,'</a> a few years ago, when my son was a baby, I would grab the guitar and make up riffs for him. If he seemed to take a shine to a riff, I would record it on my phone. Soon I had enough ideas to record an EP. I wanted to come up with a moniker to separate the new tunes from my family albums, so I revisited an alias I had used once before. When my wife Sami and I had only been dating a few months, we were talking about music and my harmonica playing came up. She was getting ready to leave for a trip and jokingly told me, ‘why don’t you write a harmonica song for me?’ Well, that night I wrote and recorded a very vintage sounding blues tune, vaguely about her, and sent it to her, saying I had discovered this old blues artist, ‘Sonny Trench Foot.’ I think it took her about 45 seconds to realize it was really me!</p>
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<p>WHERE WERE YOU AND WHAT MADE YOU DECIDE TO WRITE A CHILDREN’S SONG? WHAT WAS THE NAME OF THE FIRST SONG YOU WROTE?</p>
<p>About 13 years ago, for my niece's 2nd birthday, I decided to write her a few songs. I wanted each song to be a small lesson wrapped in a catchy tune. The first tune I wrote was called 'Let's Go Outside and Play.' The next was 'Sunshine Cream' (about the importance of sunscreen). The third was a tune about sharing called 'If You Have Two.' I recorded some simple guitar/vocal tracks and her reaction, in addition to that of her parents and grandparents, was enough encouragement for me to continue writing in that genre. Soon, I had enough tunes for a full album, then another, then another. The live children's shows began soon after!</p>
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<p>WHERE IS YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO PERFORM? IS THERE ANY PLACE YOU WOULD LIKE TO PLAY A SHOW BUT HAVEN’T YET?</p>
<p>I've been fortunate enough to play so many great venues. The Gothic Theatre is gorgeous. The Bluebird Theatre feels like home. There is a venue in Missoula, MT, called the Top Hat, that does everything right. Of all the amazing venues I've played, I'd have to say my absolute favorite is <a contents="Bookbar" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="http://www.bookbardenver.com">Bookbar</a> on Tennyson St. It's a bookstore/wine bar/coffee shop where I've been doing my monthly Happier Hour Storytime shows for about 5 years. From the venue, to the staff, to the regular crowd, everything about Bookbar is top shelf. When the pandemic hit, we moved into the online space, but this month we'll be going back to in-person shows, on the Bookbar patio, and I couldn't be more excited!</p>
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<p>WITHOUT OVERTHINKING IT, TELL US 3-5 INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT NOT TOO MANY PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT YOU.</p>
<p>I have a degree in Exercise Physiology. My first band was called 'The Brad Weaver System' (I didn't come up with the name, the bass player did!) Although I play quite a few instruments, up until last year, I could not figure out the kazoo. I finally got it!</p>
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<p>WHO ARE SOME ARTISTS YOU LOOK UP TO AND WHY?</p>
<p>As far as early influences, I always put it like this: Metallica made me realize the power music held. Pearl Jam made me want to write my own songs. Neil Young made me realize I could.</p>
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<p>WHAT IS SOMETHING YOU WISH TO ACCOMPLISH AS A MUSICIAN?</p>
<p>I want to introduce the power of music to as many folks as I possibly can.</p>
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<p>DID YOU PLAY ANY INSTRUMENTS IN SCHOOL?</p>
<p>In the fourth grade, I played the recorder (just like every fourth grader on the planet!), and I played the trumpet in junior high. I didn't pick up the guitar until I was about 18.</p>
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<p>HAVE YOU EVER HELPED SOMEONE ELSE WITH YOUR GIFT?</p>
<p>The Rough Cuts had a regular gig at Children's Hospital. That was incredibly rewarding.</p>
<p>I've also done shows for Habitat for Humanity and Easter Seals. I've also done a song for a wonderful organization called '<a contents="Sing Me a Story" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="http://www.singmeastory.org">Sing Me a Story</a>.' They collect stories and drawings from hospitalized children and have songwriters, like myself, turn them into songs. All the money raised goes to various other nonprofits serving children in need. My tune 'Lot's of Dinosaurs' was based on a story written by a young boy named Noah.</p>
<p>Another cool thing I’ve been involved with is ‘Songs for Jake.’ Sami’s brother has severe Cerebral Palsy, and cannot communicate verbally, but is a huge music fan. I came up with the idea to record a video, each week, of us playing a tune and send it to Jake. It wasn’t long before Sami started thinking bigger and recruiting our many musician friends to record songs as well. We continued Songs for Jake as a weekly YouTube series, for several years. We had a lot of fun and it brought a lot of happiness to a very special person. (<a contents="See all the videos here" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://www.youtube.com/user/SongsForJake">See all the videos here</a>)</p>
<p>On the topic of fundraisers, one more thing I’d like to mention is a fantastic telethon I will be a part of next month. On June 5, I will be playing a few songs during the ‘Switch On Global Telethon.’ As the name states, it is an international telethon hosted by a fantastic Australian Organization called ‘Music Matters.’ The telethon will benefit several environmental and animal welfare nonprofits. <a contents="You can find more info here" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="http://www.musicmatters.org">You can find more info here</a>.</p>
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<p>WHAT IS ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE ITEMS YOU TAKE ALONG ON ROAD TRIPS AND IS SOMETHING YOU CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT ON THE ROAD?</p>
<p>Never underestimate the magic of a good pair of headphones. When you're stuck in a van for weeks at a time, you need to create some alone time.</p>
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<p>WHAT’S THE BEST ADVICE YOU’VE EVER BEEN GIVEN AND WHO GAVE IT TO YOU? HOW BOUT THE WORST ADVICE SOMEONE GAVE YOU?</p>
<p>I can’t recall any bad advice, but as far as the best, I was once complaining about not being able to write and sing like one of my favorite artists. My brother Brandon looked me in the eye and said, 'All you need to do is write and sing like Bradley Weaver.'</p>
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<p>DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR UPCOMING MUSICIANS JUST GETTING STARTED?</p>
<p>See the above, but replace 'Bradley Weaver' with your own name.</p>
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<p>WHERE IS YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO WRITE MUSIC?</p>
<p>Whenever ideas hit me I collect them in my phone. When I get some time in my home studio (Where's Izzy Studios), I see what I can do with them. Most of the actual writing takes place in the studio. Aside from the Sonny Trench Foot riff rock I spoke of earlier, I'd say that about 90% of my tunes begin with a lyrical hook and take off from there. I’ll take the original idea and fill a page with anything I can think of related to that idea. I work as quickly as I can with no filter, then I go back and grab the best ideas on the page. Chorus comes first, then a few supporting verses. Decide if it needs a bridge or a solo(s), then rewrite, rewrite, rewrite.... I may have completely over simplified a very complicated process, but when you do something for so many years, you learn what works for you and what doesn’t. The secret is that the ‘rewrite’ stage can take anywhere from an hour to a year!</p>
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<p>ANY NEW MUSIC COMING SOON? WHO DO WE CONTACT IF WE WANT TO BOOK YOU?</p>
<p>I've got enough ideas to do another family-friendly EP as well as another album of lullabies. It's just a matter of finding the time to lay them down! I've also got a 2nd coloring book ready to go, so look for that in the next few months. I do all my booking through Roger Charlie. You can find all the info on the <a contents="contact page of my website" data-link-label="Contact" data-link-type="page" href="/contact">contact page of my website</a>.</p>
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<p>Thank you- Big Red</p>
<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/65082322020-12-27T13:48:30-07:002020-12-27T13:51:06-07:00Is My Child Old Enough to Learn Guitar?<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span class="font_regular">How to know if they are ready to play.</span></h2>
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<p><span class="font_regular"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/ddf155825af82d76983e7f94bd38c3120178ea2c/original/pxl-20201127-171311257-2.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">This will probably be the shortest blog I've ever written, but I want to address a question I am asked quite often.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">When parents learn that I am a guitar instructor, they inevitably will pose the question, 'How do I know if my child is ready to learn the guitar?' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Determining this is actually quite simple. Are you ready for this? You only need to ask yourself <strong>two</strong> questions.</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Question #1</span></h3>
<h3><span class="font_regular"><em>'Has my child expressed an interest in learning the guitar?'</em></span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">Simple, right? Just like with most things in life, if your child hasn't decided (<strong>on their own</strong>) that they want to play guitar, then they are probably not ready to start. If your child has been 'bugging you' constantly about wanting to learn guitar, then you should definitely move on to question number two!</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Question #2</span></h3>
<h3><span class="font_regular"><em>'Is my child big enough to hold the guitar?'</em></span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">Luckily, guitars come in many shapes and sizes, so if your child is excited to learn and you've found a guitar that they can hold, then you are good to go!</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">There it is. If your child <strong>WANTS</strong> to learn and you find them a size-appropriate guitar, it's time for the magic to begin!</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">The other suggestion, I would make, is to learn the guitar <strong>WITH</strong> your child. Come on, admit it. You've always wanted to learn the guitar anyway! What better time than now. Learn with them, or if you want them to think you are a real rock star, learn one week ahead of them!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular"><a contents="" data-link-label="LetsPlayGuitar" data-link-type="page" href="/letsplayguitar"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/8d32eccd93779fbe9ab38d8ea824071cbf76f715/original/book-cover.jpg/!!/undefined/b:W1sic2l6ZSIsIm1lZGl1bSJdXQ==.jpg" class="size_m justify_center border_" /></a></span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">I invite you to visit <a contents="www.bradleyweaver.net/letsplayguitar" data-link-label="LetsPlayGuitar" data-link-type="page" href="/letsplayguitar">www.bradleyweaver.net/letsplayguitar</a> , enjoy the free audio/video, and then purchase a PDF, ebook or soft-cover version of my new book.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">If you have any specific questions regarding the book, lessons, choosing the right guitar, etc. please send me an <a contents="email" data-link-label="" data-link-type="email" href="mailto:bradley@bradleyweaver.net">email</a>. I'd be happy to help!</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">Thank you and have fun,</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Bradley</span></p>
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<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/63582042020-06-25T22:10:43-06:002020-06-25T22:10:43-06:00Tweets about Parenting<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span class="font_large">Tweets About Parenting </span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span class="font_large">(Hank's 2nd Year) </span></h2>
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<p><span class="font_large">Judging by my number of likes and retweets, I guessing that most of you don't know about my Twitter account. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Yes, I do have one. It is under my blog name, ‘<a contents="Dad Writes Things." data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://twitter.com/bradleyweav">Dad Writes Things.</a>’ </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I tweet about a lot of random things, but this past year, I began to post regularly about my life as a new parent.</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">So, inspired by <a contents="Hugh Weber aka 'Dude to Dad,'" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://twitter.com/dudetodad">Hugh Weber aka 'Dude to Dad,'</a> I decided to assemble a year’s worth of my dad tweets into this one, handy blog post. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Enjoy! </span></p>
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<h3><a contents="Dad Writes Things @bradleyweav" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://twitter.com/bradleyweav"><span class="font_large">Dad Writes Things @bradleyweav </span></a></h3>
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<p><span class="font_large">Part of being a #newparent is trying to remember when you last showered. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">(Hint: it was probably 3 days ago) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#newparenting #talesofanewdad #newdad </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:08 AM · Jun 21, 2019·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">(Back when we were first getting Hank to sleep in his own room) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Us: 'I wish he would stop crying and just go to sleep.' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">(5 minutes later) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Us: 'Why did he stop crying?! My God, we've got to check on him!' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#newparents #newdad #lifewithababy </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">11:59 AM · Jun 29, 2019·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">My one year old son loves to dance. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Everywhere. All the time. He gets me to dance. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Keep dancing Hank. Keep dancing everyone. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#dance #ProudDad #dancelikeeveryoneiswatching </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">6:47 AM · Jul 25, 2019·Twitter for Android</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">'Please don't lick the trash can.' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Something I've found myself saying quite a bit this week. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#ProudDad #newdad #talesofanewdad #Parenthood </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">1:56 PM · Jul 27, 2019·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Who wore it better? </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#bweav #hbweav #lederhosen</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">10:19 AM · Nov 9, 2019·Instagram </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">We're officially in the 'I can now open the toilet lid & everything in the house must be thrown in there!' phase. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#newdad #prouddad #Parenthood #parenting #dadlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:33 AM · Dec 11, 2019·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">After reading countless #ChildrensBooks the past 18 months, I've come to the conclusion that no one seems to agree on what sound a rabbit makes. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#newdad #parenting #parenthood </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">9:35 PM · Dec 16, 2019·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Never mind 'mamma' & 'dadda'. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Our son just learned how to moo like a cow & it's the most beautiful thing I've ever heard. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#newdad #parenthood #parenting #prouddad </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Almost 19 months in and I'm still terrible at putting socks on my son. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#fatherhood #Parenthood #parenting </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:17 AM · Jan 6, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">My toddler has recently discovered that he enjoys rifling through my wallet. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I fear this 'phase' may last the rest of our lives. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#prouddad #fatherhood #parenting #parenthood </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:13 AM · Jan 7, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">The bill paying adult in me can't stop thinking about mamma's out of pocket costs every time she calls that damn doctor. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#fivelittlemonkeys #ChildrensBooks #musicforkids #parenting </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">3:52 AM · Jan 10, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Since becoming a father, I've spent more time staring at the sky than I ever have before. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Airplanes, stars, birds, clouds, the moon. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Thank you Hank for giving me back my sense of wonder. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">May you never lose yours! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#talesofanewdad #Parenthood #fatherhood #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:35 AM · Jan 15, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">19 months in & Hank finally understands the hilarity of farts. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#ProudDad #dadlife #parenting #farthumor #fatherhood #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:08 AM · Jan 27, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">(Hank & I playing on the floor) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Hank: (smiling & quietly playing) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Me: (turns to pick up a toy) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Hank: (without making a peep, throws up all over himself) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Hank: (smiling & quietly playing) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Me: How the...??! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#prouddad #parenting #dadlife #dadwritesthings #talesofanewdad </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:42 AM · Jan 28, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Parenthood is hiding from your toddler to quickly eat a cookie, </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">because he ate one earlier & one per day is his limit & he'll freak if he </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">sees your cookie </span><span style="font-size: 1.4em;">& you tell him he can't have another.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#Parenthood #parenting #cookies #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">11:10 PM · Jan 29, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Hank inquiring as to why his tiny shirt has a 5 inch tag. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#childrensclothing #dadwritesthings #pareting </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Yesterday, around 4:45, I was playing in the yard with Hank & I thought, 'we should go inside & check out the #SuperBowl </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Then I thought, 'my son is happily playing outside!' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#gooutsideandplay #fatherhoodrocks #dadwritesthings #outdoorfun #dadlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">1:59 PM · Feb 3, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Normally disgusting things that are downright adorable when a 1-year-old child does them. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">1. Smacking their lips & chewing with their mouth open. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#parenting #fatherhood #dadlife #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:15 AM · Feb 6, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">So, anyone else's toddlers get completely hypnotized by @LittleBabyBum? </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Great program & fantastic lessons, but seriously, in a trance. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#parenting #fatherhood #childrenstelevision </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:10 AM · Feb 10, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">This stage. Offer Hank another bite of food while he still has some in his mouth. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">He spits out said food to make room for the fresh bite. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Our timing must be impeccable. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#dadlife #parenting #toddlerlife #fatherhood #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:18 AM · Feb 19, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Quick question. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Do #swimdiapers really work? </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Hank hasn't pooped in his yet (knock on wood) & every time we swim I fear I'm going to discover they are a big hoax. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#parenting #toddlerlife #dadlife #dadwritesthings #newdad </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">11:26 AM · Feb 22, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Our toddler loves to take showers. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Not sure if this is rare or newsworthy, but I think it's super cool & awfully cute. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #ProudDad #dadlife #parenting #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:14 AM · Feb 27, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Missed his nap window this afternoon. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Now, I'm desperately trying to keep my tired toddler awake until 8 o'clock. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Fail and his schedule will be thrown off until he's 18. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Wish me luck! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#parenting #dadlife #fatherhood #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">6:02 PM · Feb 29, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Everyone In The World: When are you having a baby?! When are you having a baby?! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">(We have a baby) </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">EITW (immediately): When is Hank going to get a little brother or sister?! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Us: We're waiting until he turns 3, so he can babysit. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">EITW: </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">#dadwritesthings #toddlerlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">1:43 PM · Mar 1, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Before I became a dad, I assumed that #teething lasted maybe a few weeks, tops. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I was quite mistaken. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #parenting #dadlife #fatherhood #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:15 AM · Mar 3, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Recently, while we are eating, our toddler will decide to start feeding me his food. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">It is sooooo cute, but I don't think I can eat anymore #goldfish crackers. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#prouddad #toddlerlife #parenting #dadwritesthings </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:19 AM · Mar 6, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">I get a bit sad when Hank outgrows a toy or song that once was his favorite,</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">but I absolutely love watching him discover the next! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #ProudDad #parenting #fatherhood #dadlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">11:23 PM · Mar 9, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Hank often takes his afternoon nap in our bed. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Up until 21 months, he would cry a bit, when he woke, to alert us. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Now he just strolls out into the living room like, 'Hey, what's up?' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#ToddlerLife #dadlife #parenting #fatherhood #prouddad </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">5:01 AM · Mar 13, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Hank insists on feeding himself exclusively. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">15% on his shirt/bib </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">10% on his chair </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">50% on floor </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">25% in his mouth* </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Also, meals take about 300% longer, but still an important and adorable stage.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">*actual numbers vary dependent on food served.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #prouddad #parenting</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:26 AM Mar 19, 2020 Twitter for Android</span></p>
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<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/0faebeb8abe6601ef64c9790eb5daa7543fc9c9c/original/img-20200311-145739.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Did I mention Hell Track is about a mile from our house. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">This could be trouble in a few years. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#hbweav #rad #toddlerlife @ Ruby Hill Park </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"> 11:21 AM · Mar 14, 2020·Instagram </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Hank actively seeks out our hands to hold whenever we are walking together. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">This 'stage' can't possibly last long enough. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#ProudDad #toddlers #toddlerlife #parenting #dadlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:23 AM · Mar 30, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Back in normal times, when I got home from work, Hank would light up & run to give me a hug. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Now, I have to stop him & say, 'Wait! I have to change & shower first!' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">It breaks his heart & it breaks mine. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Every day, I pray he is napping when I get home. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">This really sucks. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:22 AM · Apr 9, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/d6dfa1232292f83fe4f2e712876831bb683e7811/original/img-20200223-111857.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Dreaming of the day when a boy & his mom can, once again, just hang out at the pizza counter. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#hbweav #denvermilkmarket #quarantinedreaming @ Denver Milk Market </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">5:34 PM · Apr 12, 2020·Instagram </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Every Sunday I do laundry. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Every Sunday I have a big, stupid smile as I fold Hank's tiny clothes. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">He will be bigger than me by the time he's a teenager. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I am cherishing every second of this. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlers #toddlerlife #parenting #dadlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">6:23 PM · Apr 12, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Are we still doing the 'insert the word coworker for your child thing?' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Anyway, my coworker keeps punching me in the dick, but when he giggles afterward, he is so darned cute I can't stay mad. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #parenting #parenthood #QuarantineLife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">3:05 PM · Apr 25, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">This morning I gave Hank a banana slice & clear as day, in his tiny voice, he said, 'thank you.'</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I have now assumed the role of #worldsgreatestdad I will relinquish the crown in 24 hrs or the next time I do something really stupid, whichever comes first. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #dadlife </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">7:31 PM · May 2, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">I've transitioned from touring outlaw country musician to guy who walks over to the neighbors' house at 10:30pm, on a Saturday, & asks them if they could 'turn the music down a bit, so our toddler can sleep.' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Also, I'm completely okay with this.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlerlife #parenting </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">4:03 AM · Jun 1, 2020·Twitter for Android </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_large">Hank is almost 2 & has recently begun imitating me. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I fold my arms. He folds his arms. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I lean back on the porch steps. He leans back on the porch steps. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">This will never grow old for me. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I hope he always wants to be like his dad.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">#toddlers #toddlerlife #dadlife #Parenthood </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">10:15 AM · Jun 10, 2020·Twitter for Android</span></p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/63580642020-06-18T14:28:05-06:002020-06-18T14:28:05-06:00If They're Bored, It's Your Fault<h3>Here is a link to a guest post I wrote for <a contents="BeingDads.com" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://www.beingdads.com/blog/if-theyre-bored-its-your-fault">BeingDads.com</a>.</h3>
<h3>In it, I discuss the common thread between performing for drunks, performing for children, and parenting a toddler.</h3>
<h3>I hope you like it.</h3>
<h3> </h3>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/63418022020-06-04T22:31:33-06:002020-06-04T22:31:33-06:00Never Take the Stairs<h2 style="text-align: center;">And 7 other hacks for living a long, American life</h2>
<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/a52c531e160be2bdd22dc6e041d0f5087acfa204/original/allison-heine-ishn-cm98lg-unsplash.jpg/!!/undefined/b:W1sic2l6ZSIsImxhcmdlIl1d.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Photo by Allison Heine on Unsplash</em></p>
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<h4><span class="font_regular">'Every person is born with a pre-determined number of heartbeats available to them. Once you reach that number, you die.’</span></h4>
<p><span class="font_regular">This is actually a thing that someone once told me. They were dead serious.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Now, you and I both know that this is complete nonsense. We know that the heart is a muscle and exercise strengthens it and will help you live a longer, healthier life.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">This article is written from the perspective of someone who believes that earlier, asinine statement to be true.</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Why bike when you’ve got a car?</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">Thinking about biking to work or to the store or just for fun? Please remove that incredibly dangerous thought from your head. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Don’t you know that bicycles are for kids and fools that aren’t able to drive a car. Do you honestly think that god invented the motor vehicle so we would continue pedaling ourselves around town? I don’t care if you’re only going a few blocks. You get in that car and you drive your American butt to your destination.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Here is another thing that I feel is too important not to mention. If you happen to see another adult riding a bicycle, you need to make them aware that they have no business being on your road.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Also, assume that they are only on a bike because they have a DUI.</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Why walk? Again, you’ve got a car.</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">The longest distance you should be walking is from your house to your car. When you reach your destination, keep that rule of thumb in mind.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Your survival dictates that you park as near to the door as you can.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Here is another tip for you. Most establishments have the closest spaces to the entrance marked as ‘Handicapped Only.’ Park in one of those spaces. After all, what are the chances of that many handicapped people showing up at the same time?</span></p>
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<h3>
<span class="font_regular">W</span>hat if I cannot find a good parking space?</h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">That is a great question. If the ‘Handicap Hack’ doesn’t work for you, circle the lot a maximum of 5 times. If an acceptable space doesn’t open up, give up and go home. It wasn’t meant to be.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">As you circle the lot, keep an eye out for folks leaving the building. Follow them to see if they’ve got one of the good spots. As you follow them, keep your front bumper as close to their heels as possible. You do not want to run the risk of another ‘circler’ swooping in.</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Running/jogging? Are you kidding me?</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">I’m just going to pretend I didn’t hear you say that.</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Are there any safe athletics?</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">The short answer is, ‘No.’</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">When it comes to athletics, it is best to assume the role of ‘spectator’ and leave the work to the professionals. These athletes are sacrificing their heartbeat quotas for us. Just sit back, have some chips and enjoy the theater that is professional sport.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Remember, any attempt to ‘play’ these sports, yourself, is a slap in the face to those courageous (and well paid) athletes.</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/bc5fcec7174347f6a9a90b9f7d044e4095a844cd/original/phillip-goldsberry-ldl5wouqmbk-unsplash.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span class="font_regular">Photo by Phillip Goldsberry on Unsplash</span></em></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Dancing? Don’t be tempted.</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">Much like bicycling, dancing is for children who don’t know any better.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Have you seen how silly people look when they dance? Save yourself the embarrassment and just stop.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">If you happen to be within earshot of some catchy tune that makes you want to dance, don’t you dare even start tapping a toe! Remind yourself that music is the creation of the Devil and get yourself the heck out of that situation.</span></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">What about sex?</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">The mere mention of the word ‘sex’ is taboo and it should be.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Sexual intercourse should take place for one reason and one reason only. To make babies.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">If you’re thinking about using sex for any sort of pleasure, you need to wash those sinful thoughts right out of your filthy mind!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">If you do decide to make a baby, keep these rules in mind:</span></p>
<ul> <li><span class="font_regular">Sex should be as brief as possible.</span></li> <li><span class="font_regular">Foreplay is, not only, completely unnecessary, but an irresponsible misuse of heart beats.</span></li> <li><span class="font_regular">Sex is over when the male is finished.</span></li>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">Never take the stairs!</span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">Should you find yourself in a ‘multi-floor’ situation, pray to your god that there is an elevator available.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Are you going up 10 floors or only 1? It doesn’t matter. You find that elevator.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Now, I’m aware that some buildings do not have elevators. Why this is even allowed, I do not know. If you find yourself in an elevator-less building. You need to ask yourself how much you really need to be there.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Let me ask you this. Is there an escalator available? While not quite an elevator, this is definitely an acceptable alternative.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">While riding the escalator, you may be tempted to take some steps and ‘speed up’ the trip to the top. Don’t you dare! Do you know how pissed the inventor of the escalator would be if you decided to treat their creation like a simple staircase?</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">The above paragraph also applies to moving sidewalks. Also, please do me this favor. When you’re standing on the moving sidewalk, be sure to block the entire width of the walk to discourage any others misusing the apparatus.</span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">Well, there you have it. I hope this article has been helpful to you. If you have any tips of your own, I would love to hear them.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Now, sit back, relax and leave the exercise to those suckers who don’t know our little secret.</span></p>
<h3><span class="font_regular">The secret to living a long, American life.</span></h3>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/63028872020-05-14T22:46:46-06:002020-05-14T22:49:59-06:00Want To Stick To Your Exercise Routine?<h2 style="text-align: center;"> Don't Work Out. Play!</h2>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Photo by Sven Brandsma on Unsplash</em></p>
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<h3><span class="font_regular">My Dirty Little Secret </span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">I'm well aware that most of you don't know who I am. The few of you, that have heard of me, know me as a musician. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Well, here's something that very few people know about me. A lifetime ago, I earned a college degree in Exercise Physiology. Upon graduation, I was lucky enough to land a job in my chosen field, the fitness industry. I'd like to begin this piece by telling you about the day I decided to leave that career. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Hershey, PA. I was working as a trainer at a racquetball and fitness center. I had been there about 6 months the day I witnessed two gentlemen literally fighting over the parking space nearest the entrance to the building, all so they could come inside and hop on the stair climbers. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">That was it. Now, mind you, while this was just one incident, it was indicative of everything I had learned about the industry during my brief time on the inside. I was being paid to train people who were doing something they hated. Something they thought they had to do. They were unhappy and there was no way they were going to sustain any sort of exercise routine. </span></p>
<h3> </h3>
<h3><span class="font_regular">I’m Not Right In The Head </span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">I truly love running. Now, about 85% of the population would call me crazy, for making such a statement, but it's true. I love the solitude, the quiet and the way it makes me feel. I also get some of my best creative ideas during a run. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">My wife loves to do a work out based on the Lagree method. Basically, it's like Pilates times 10. It's definitely kicked my butt, the few times I've attempted to work out with her! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Some people, like us, really enjoy working out. They love to lift weights, or do yoga, or Cross-fit. This article isn't for those people, or me, or my wife. This article is for the people I trained during my short time in the industry. This article is for the people who know they need more exercise. It's for the people who have no idea where to start and only know that they absolutely despise working out. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">This is for all the people at whom I wanted to shout, 'Don't pay to come here and be miserable! Go outside and play!' </span></p>
<h3> </h3>
<h3><span class="font_regular">Remember Play? </span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">Yes, my friend. You don't need to work out to be healthy. Just play! </span></p>
<p> </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="font_regular"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/8d5e25c302630df4b6c41df034ad314d837652f9/original/img-1802.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="font_regular"><em>Image credit Bweav</em> </span></p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">See this photo? That's me with the crazy ups. I love basketball. I absolutely suck at it, but I love to play. </span></p>
<p>Maybe you also like to play basketball. Go play! Do it a few times a week. You don't need to join a league or find a pick up game. Just go out, behind the garage, and play. Run and dribble and shoot and rebound. Just keep moving. Get that heart rate up for a half hour or so. You're playing and you're having fun, but you're also getting the exercise that is so important to your health, well-being, and longevity!</p>
<p><span class="font_regular">You played soccer, as a child, didn't you? Maybe it's just where I grew up, but it sure seemed like every child played, if only for a year or two. Anyway, remember how much fun it was? Find a ball. Find a good-sized patch of grass and chase that ball around for a bit. Heck, you can even slice up some oranges to eat during your short, halftime break! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Like to ride your bike? Go for it. Just keep those pedals moving! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Lace up those roller skates. Alright, maybe I’m a bit old school. Lace up those inline skates. Slap on some headphones. Be mindful of traffic and have at it! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">How about dancing? Of course you love to dance. Do that, and then do it some more! Check out my blog post, on dancing, <a contents="here" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://bradleyweaver.net/dad-writes-things/blog/dance-with-your-child">here</a>. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Golf? Oh yeah! Just leave that electric cart at the clubhouse. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">I live in Colorado, so I'm required to include this one. Hiking? Absolutely. Get out there. </span></p>
<h3> </h3>
<h3><span class="font_regular">Have Fun and Keep Moving (and Have Fun) </span></h3>
<p><span class="font_regular">We all need exercise. It's good for our bodies. It's great for our minds. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">You need to exercise, but you don't need to work out. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Go play! </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Go do something that you actually enjoy and do it a few times a week. Keep moving and have fun. </span></p>
<h4> </h4>
<h4><span class="font_regular">That's an exercise routine you can stick to!</span></h4>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/62186372020-02-25T21:09:16-07:002020-02-26T21:46:00-07:007 Absolutely FREE Toddler-Friendly Activities In (Insert Your City Here)<p><span class="font_large"><strong>I think Social Media is keeping track of my interests, life events, and social activities</strong>!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">I'm joking, of course. This is exactly what Social Media does. It is what we signed up for. I only mention it, to mention this: </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Social media knows that I'm a new parent. As a result, I find my feeds bombarded with articles listing '<em>Child-Friendly</em>' activities in '<em>My Town</em>.' Generally, these are from phony, click-bait pages pretending to be local, such as <i>"Hey, I'm From Denver Too,"</i> or <em>"You Know You're From Denver When."</em></span></p>
<p><strong><span class="font_regular">As a response, I would like to share my own list.</span></strong></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Feel free to print this list and take it with you to any city or town throughout the land. </span><span class="font_regular">It is written to be generic, er. universal. No matter where you find yourself, there are scores of child-friendly activities. Sometimes we just need a little nudge in the right direction.</span></p>
<hr><p><em><span class="font_regular">Here is a quick example for you:</span></em></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Today my son and I spent 30 minutes playing with his Diaper Genie. Don't worry. We weren't playing with the bag of dirty diapers. I had just changed the bag and we were playing with the foot pedal and the release button on the side. He loves to do this and he does it every time I change the Genie.</span></p>
<p>Toddlers want to have fun and learn about the world around them<span class="font_regular">. They are curious. They are fascinated by everything. You just need to let them explore, give them a bit of guidance and provide the occasional change of scenery.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">That being said, here is my list of <strong>7 absolutely FREE toddler-friendly activities</strong>.</span></p>
<hr><p><strong><span class="font_large">7. Visit the Library</span></strong></p>
<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/5d56224205ba02eb8e892837ab1fefc6d42eb6bc/original/library.jpg/!!/undefined/b:W1sic2l6ZSIsImxhcmdlIl1d.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">image credit: Bweav</p>
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<p><span class="font_regular">(Almost) every town has a library. I grew up in a very small town in Pennsylvania. So small, in fact, that it is registered as a 'village.' The population was about 400 people. We had no stoplights and no restaurants, but you know what we had? A library.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Sure it was one tiny room with about 100 books (that may be a slight exaggeration), but it was a library!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Libraries have books...for reading. They also have books for children, heck some even have entire sections dedicated to children's books. Go there. Read to your child. Let your child read to themself. Or let them run around, grabbing books off the shelf, while you follow them and replace said books. A fun way to bond while you both get some much-needed exercise</span><span class="font_regular">.</span></p>
<p><em><span class="font_regular">Before we move on, I want to mention that the library is there for you regardless of the weather, as is our next activity!</span></em></p>
<hr><p><strong><span class="font_large">6. Go To the Mall</span></strong></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">I want to let you in on a secret about the Mall. You can 'shop' there for hours and you don't need to buy a darned thing!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Senior Citizens have known about this for years. Get there around opening time and you'll see them, in droves, just walking. They're walking, because they know exercise is important and they know that the weather, inside the mall, will always be perfect.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">On our last outing, to the mall, my son spent about 25 minutes running down a ramp and climbing up it's accompanying stairs. We spent the remaining few hours playing with mini-basketballs at the sporting goods store, 'testing' various goods at the toy store and making friends throughout the food court.</span></p>
<p><em><span class="font_regular">On a personal note, my entire life I've never really liked going to the Mall (even as a teenager), but when I'm with my toddler, it's an absolute joy!</span></em></p>
<hr><p><span class="font_large"><strong>5. Run Around the Park</strong></span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Remember that tiny village where I grew up? It had a park. Nothing official, just about a half-acre, next to the garment factory, with some grass and a bunch of trees.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Every town and every city has at least the equivalent of this. Most cities have dozens of parks all with one thing in common. Your toddler can run there for hours! They can also tumble and play with sticks and look at trees.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Even if your neighborhood's park is only a half a block long, it will seem like New York's Central Park to a tiny child!</span></p>
<hr><p><strong><span class="font_large">4. Play at the Playground</span></strong></p>
<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/c1e49477c7067f019c5fd67823e4575bf47ec86b/original/playground.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">image credit: Bweav</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> </p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Many of the aforementioned parks, in addition to having 'miles' of grass and trees, will also have some version of a playground. It may be as simple as a few swings and one slide, but it's a playground nonetheless.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Playgrounds are built with one goal in mind; for children to have fun! Heck, they've got the word 'play' right in there. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">This may go without saying, but I want to mention it anyway. In order for your child to get the most enjoyment out of any of these activities, you (the parent) need to be participating. Play with your child. Be fully present and involved, no matter where you are. You may find yourself having even more fun than your child!</span></p>
<hr><p><strong><span class="font_large">3. Explore Your Kitchen</span></strong></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">This may not be your idea of a proper play area, but I want to include it as the most conveniently located rainy day option.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">We're all, of course, familiar with the 'pots and pans as a drum kit' playtime activity. You loved it when you were a child and your child will love it too. Once your child is introduced to this activity he/she will play those drums as long as your ears will allow.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Aside from the drum kit, what other activities can we do in the kitchen? Well, I'm glad you asked. How about:</span></p>
<ul> <li><span class="font_regular">Empty a cabinet (preferably on the base level!) and let your child crawl in for some 'peek-a-boo' fun.</span></li> <li>G<span class="font_regular">uide them in a pretend baking session or better yet, really bake something and let them help! <em>(My wife and son do this twice a week!)</em></span>
</li> <li><span class="font_regular">Use some conveniently placed sheets/blankets to make a fort out of the kitchen table.</span></li> <li><span class="font_regular">Crayons and paper, on the kitchen floor, are always a great option.</span></li>
</ul>
<hr><p><strong><span class="font_large">2. Walk Around the Block</span></strong></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">-For this activity, I will assume your neighborhood has sidewalks or some equivalent option other than walking on a busy street.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Just take a walk with your child. Anyone who has walked with a toddler will tell you that a 'short' walk around the block could kill hours out of your day!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Children love to explore. All you need to do is let them. Every few feet there will be a new insect to meet, a new sidewalk crack to investigate or a newly fallen leaf to collect. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Let their enthusiasm guide them and </span><span class="font_regular">inspire you. Try to count all of the things you've never really noticed about your block.</span></p>
<hr><p><strong><span class="font_large">1. Stomp in a Puddle</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span class="font_large"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/b2f07a291f4871fa0ab53ab8256af6c426e1135d/original/puddle.jpg/!!/undefined/b:W1sic2l6ZSIsIm1lZGl1bSJdXQ==.jpg" class="size_m justify_center border_" /></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="font_regular">image credit: Bweav</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Find a puddle and let them jump into it. That's it. That's the activity.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">My son will do this as long as we let him and I'm pretty sure your child will do the same!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Jump in the puddle with them! Clothes can be cleaned. Shoes dry. </span></p>
<hr><p><strong>There you have it. 7 absolutely FREE toddler-friendly activities in (insert your city here)!</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_regular">I had a little fun with this list, but I hope it helps.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_regular">Your toddler will make their own fun. You just need to give them options and be ready to jump on board with whatever fun activity they create.</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/62026752020-02-11T21:14:08-07:002020-02-13T21:02:12-07:00Serve the Song (Lessons in Music. Lessons in Life)<p style="text-align: center;"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/b904557210c5171d53f265255b66ecce4cefa4fb/original/serve-the-song-2.jpg/!!/undefined/b:W1sic2l6ZSIsIm1lZGl1bSJdXQ==.jpg" class="size_orig justify_inline border_" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">image credit: Bweav</p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">This photo is the back of my business card. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">'Serve the Song' is a term/mantra/philosophy I constantly stress to my students. Whether it's guitar, voice, songwriting or any musical endeavor. 'Serve the Song!' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">This means that if what you are doing (or about to do) does not make the song better, then don't do it!!!</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">It seems</span><span class="font_large"> so simple, but I think we all need to be reminded of this now & then. </span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">That guitar riff you're about to play. That vocal run that will showcase your incredible range. That 3rd verse that appeared to you in a dream. Sure, these may all be fantastic! They may be just what the song needs to take it to that 'next level.' </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Or maybe not. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">If you really believe in it & you feel it will make the song </span><span class="font_large">better,</span><span class="font_large"> then go for it! Greatness is achieved by taking risks & putting yourself out there. However, if after you think about your reasons & you think about what it will do for the song, you realize that maybe it really won't 'Serve the Song,' then don't do it. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Move on to the next idea that you've got brewing up in that beautiful brain of yours.</span></p>
<p> </p>
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<p> </p>
<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/ef3f5621ce6976286c649c757465f2fce7a3bfe1/original/notplaying.jpg/!!/undefined/b:W1sic2l6ZSIsIm1lZGl1bSJdXQ==.jpg" class="size_orig justify_center border_" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">image credit: Dakari Lorenzo Martin</p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">See the photo above? That's me, during a show, mid-song, not playing. At that moment, I had nothing to add to the music that would make it better, so I didn't play. Restraint can be such a wonderful thing!</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Miles Davis said, 'It's not the notes you play. It's the notes you don't play.' I fully believe that. I see so many players who feel the need to show the world how many notes they can fit </span><span class="font_large">into</span><span class="font_large"> every solo. I see so many songwriters who need to show that they know ALL the chords. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Nobody is impressed. Just stop it</span><span class="font_large">!</span></p>
<p> </p>
<hr><p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">I try to apply 'Serve the Song' to every aspect of my music career.</span></p>
<p> </p>
<ul> <li><span class="font_large"><em>Live show</em>: Will what I'm about to play/sing make the song better?</span></li> <li>
<span class="font_large"><em>Writing songs</em>: Will this chord change </span><span class="font_large">make</span><span class="font_large"> the song better? Will this lyric make the song better? Will this bridge make the song better?</span>
</li> <li><span class="font_large"><em>Producing songs</em>: Will this edit/effect/extra guitar track make the song better?</span></li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">You can see where I am going with this & it makes so much sense that it is all too easy to overlook. Don't worry, I'm here for you. I will never let that happen</span><span class="font_large">!</span></p>
<p> </p>
<hr><p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">As</span><span class="font_large"> an example of the production aspect, I present the following tune:</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span class="font_large"><a data-link-label="we-cant-thank-you-enough.mp3" data-link-type="file" href="/files/1028208/we-cant-thank-you-enough.mp3">'We Can't Thank You Enough'</a></span></strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">This is a tune I wrote in tribute to the great Terry Dalton. Terry was an incredible local musician/songwriter/person. When he passed away, I thought about what he meant to the scene, what he meant to music & what he meant to me. "We Can't Thank You Enough" is the result.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">This tune, as with most of my songs, began as a simple guitar/vocal demo. Over the years, I've added many tracks to the recording. I've layered harmonies. I've added several guitar tracks. I've tried synth pads, piano, & even some light drum tracks, but in the end, none of those made the recording better. None of them 'Served the Song.' Anything I tried to add only detracted from the raw emotion & sentiment of that original guitar/vocal demo. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">So I took it all away.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I've never released this tune commercially, but to this day, it is one of my favorite songs I've written.</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong><span class="font_large">'Serve the Song'</span></strong></p>
<p> </p>
<hr><p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Music is my specialty. It has been for a long time & it is certainly what I'm most comfortable writing about, but the 'Serve the Song' philosophy can really apply to every aspect of your life.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Again, it's so simple that it can easily be overlooked.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Any time you are about to do anything, ask yourself, "Will this make the situation better?"</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Of course, I am fully aware that this is completely impossible! How many decisions do you make throughout your day? If I had to guess, that number is probably in the hundreds, if not thousands. If you were to pause that many times to question yourself, you probably would never get anything done & possibly drive yourself insane!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">I am simply suggesting that you keep the mantra somewhere in the back of your mind. Whether it is a parenting decision, or a financial decision, or an interaction with a neighbor or coworker. Ask yourself, "Is what I'm about to do going to make this situation better? Will it benefit my child, or my neighbor, or my coworker?" If the answer is 'No' then maybe search for an alternative action that may provide a happier outcome for everyone involved. </span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em><strong><span class="font_large">Hint: there is always an alternative!</span></strong></em></p>
<p> </p>
<hr><p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Well, there it is. My philosophy on music & my philosophy on life. (Even though you didn't ask for it!)</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">I'll leave you with a few final questions to always keep in mind. Thanks for listening!</span></p>
<p> </p>
<ul> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make the song better?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make the recording better?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make the article better?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make my relationship better?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make my business better?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make my child's life better?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make life better for me & those I love?</span></li> <li><span class="font_large">Will this make the world better?</span></li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Is the answer, "No." Then please look for another option. It's there somewhere!</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong><span class="font_large">'Serve the Song'</span></strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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<p> </p>
<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/61964652020-01-29T22:47:15-07:002020-02-03T22:50:45-07:00Just Be Dad<p><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/cb596046150efc283f38684ac92fdaf2f2f59978/original/hank-and-dad.jpg/!!/b:W10=.jpg" class="size_l justify_center border_" /></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Just be dad. Just be there.</em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>When they need someone to hold them. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>When they need someone to care. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Just be dad. Be a star in your child's eyes.</em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Be the superman they already think you are. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Just be dad. Just be dad. Just be dad.</em></span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">This is the chorus of 'Just Be Dad,' a tune I wrote as a 'note to self', weeks before my son was born. In this piece, I'd like to dive much deeper into the message than a 4-minute pop song allows. </span></p>
<p><a contents="(listen to 'Just Be Dad' here)" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://youtu.be/j4Pf2i7Y8ZM"><strong><span class="font_large">(listen to 'Just Be Dad' here)</span></strong></a></p>
<p><span class="font_large">The premise of the song boils down to the fact that 85% (yes, I made up that percentage) of being a dad is simply being there. Just be there. By 'be there', I'm talking about being present. Be there physically & be there emotionally. Be there for your child. Play with them. Read to them. Sing to them. Dance with them. Teach them. Be silly. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">The same could be said for almost anything we do in life. Just be there. Look at your place of employment. I'd be willing to bet that just showing up & doing your job puts you in the 85th percentile of your coworkers. Am I right? I knew it. Now that we're in agreement, let's move on to another very important point. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Be there for your wife! This should & will be the focus of an entirely different piece, but I'll just say this. She is working so much harder than you & doing so much more than you & she is doing it all like a boss while her body & psyche go through changes that you could never imagine. Be there for your wife & never, ever complain to her about how hard you have it, or how tired you are. You're not tired & you don't know how good you have it. Be there for your wife!</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Okay. Let's examine the verses: </span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Verse 1: </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Will you be 'Cool Dad?' </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>What kind of dad will you be? </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Will you be the dad the other dads all really want to be? </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Well, here's a secret. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>You won't be that dad. & that's okay... yeah. </em></span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">You won't be 'cool dad.' And that IS okay. You know, in your heart, that you were never really cool. Neither was I. Also, neither is the 'cool' guy from work, or the gym, or your wife's Yoga class. </span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">The beauty of being a father is that your child doesn't give a damn if you're cool. You're 'dad.' You're their world. They'll have plenty of time to figure out that you aren't cool (i.e. the teenage years). Right now, you are a super hero & all you have to do is be you and be there. In your child's eyes you are John Wayne.</span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Verse 2:</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Will you be 'Funny Dad?'</em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>What kind of dad will you be? </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Will you make them laugh while the other dads all seethe in jealousy? </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Well, here's a secret. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>You're not that funny. & that's okay... yeah.</em></span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large">Sure, you think you're funny. You're not. Go ahead & ask your wife. I'll wait... She confirmed it, didn't she? Again, that's okay. Your baby doesn't care. Tell all the dad jokes you want, or don't. They'll still love you more than anyone deserves to be loved.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Just be dad! That's it. Be there for your child. Be there for your wife.</span></p>
<p><span class="font_large">Here is the bridge & one more chorus to take us out. </span></p>
<p> </p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>You're not that cool & you ain't funny, </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>but you're fine. Here's the plan. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Just be dad. Just be there. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>When they need someone to hold them. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>When they need someone to care. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Just be dad. Be a star in your child's eyes. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Be the superman they already think you are. </em></span></p>
<p><span class="font_large"><em>Just be dad. Just be dad. Just be dad.</em></span></p>
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<p><a contents="(listen to 'Just Be Dad' here)" data-link-label="" data-link-type="url" href="https://youtu.be/j4Pf2i7Y8ZM"><strong><span class="font_large">(listen to 'Just Be Dad' here)</span></strong></a></p>
<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/61726482020-01-25T13:35:19-07:002022-06-19T20:50:37-06:00Dance With Your Child<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">Dance with your child. Dance with your child every day.</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><em><span class="font_large">"Dancing is the most fun you can have. That is a scientific fact! I'm not sure if y'all knew that, so I'm telling ya now."</span></em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">This is the line with which I begin almost all of my children's shows. While it may not be completely accurate & I've conducted no actual scientific research, it gets a good laugh & always gets at least a few kids up and moving before the music even begins!</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">It's really not that difficult to get children to dance. They love to dance & will do so at almost every opportunity. Dancing is one of the purest and most natural forms of expression with which we are born. Watch any baby when music hits their tiny ears. They feel the rhythm. Their arms and legs begin to move. That is dancing in its purest form; moving to the rhythm of the music.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">My 1 ½ year old son loves to dance. He's been dancing since before he could walk. If there is music anywhere within earshot, he will dance. He will often dance even when there is no music to be heard. He gets me to dance & that is an incredibly difficult thing to do. (You can ask my wife for verification.)</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">You see, as easy as it is to get children to dance, adults are an entirely different story. We were all born loving to dance. I truly believe that. At some point, or in many points throughout our lives, most of us have been made to fear dancing. Most of us have been made to feel that dancing is something we should be embarrassed about or ashamed to do in public situations. For proof of this, just watch the huge number of people being literally dragged onto any wedding reception dance floor.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">We feel that if we dance we will be judged & honestly, we probably will, but just keep this in mind. Those who judge the dancers or laugh & poke fun are really just projecting their insecurities onto others. These people wish they had the courage to express themselves. They miss the child-like joy & to say they are jealous would be a gross understatement.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">This is extremely sad, but what is even more sad is that, if we let it, the same thing will eventually happen to our children. This is the world in which we live. Sorry this has taken a negative turn, but I just want to face facts & prepare you for the inevitable.</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">That being said, here is something I want you to do.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">Dance with your child. Dance with your child every day. Dance the silliest dance you can think of. Share the joy of dancing, free of ego & modesty. Show your child that dancing is not only acceptable but very much encouraged. Let your child feel the joy of expression & movement. Let them do so with abandon!</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">There is a very popular expression that you've, no doubt, heard in countless memes, inspirational quotes & barroom toasts. 'Dance like no one is watching.' While I certainly understand the sentiment behind this & I fully agree with the meaning, I would like to suggest a slight twist. 'Dance like your children are watching.' You are the hero. You are the role model. You are the trendsetter. You are their world.</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">Dance & show them it's okay. Dance and share the joy. Teach them to express themselves without fear or shame or worrying that others may judge them.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">Dance like your children are watching, because they are! They are watching you. They are watching your every move & they are learning from you. What they learn is completely up to you.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="font_large">Dance with your child. Dance with your child every day.</span></p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/61327012020-01-18T22:50:35-07:002022-06-19T21:49:19-06:00Sing to Your Baby<h4>This piece was originally published at DadUniversity.com</h4>
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<h4>Sing to your baby. Sing to your baby every day. </h4>
<p>Study after study has shown a correlation between early exposure to music and increased cognitive development, better language skills, and to increased sensory development. Exposure to music can increase levels of joy, as well as soothe an anxious baby. </p>
<p>But this article isn't about science. It's about singing! </p>
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<h4>Sing to your baby. Sing to your baby every day. </h4>
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<p><em>“But Bradley, I don't have any musical training. I don't even play an instrument.”</em> </p>
<p>No worries. No training needed here and you've got the only instrument you need: your voice. If you can strum a few chords on the guitar, fantastic. Know your way around the piano? Well, that's great too, but for our purposes, we're talking straight-up Acapella here. That, my friends, is Italian for 'without instrumental accompaniment', which brings us to your next concern. </p>
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<p><em>“But Bradley, I cannot sing.” </em></p>
<p>Well sir, I respectfully disagree. Someone once told me that singing is simply the difference between making a statement and asking a question. When you raise your pitch at the end of a question, it lets the listener know that it is indeed a question. Singing is simply raising and lowering your pitch to create a melody. You can certainly do that, and therefore, you can sing! </p>
<p>Remember, in your baby's eyes you're LeBron James, Chris Pratt, Dave Chapelle & Superman, and in terms of singing, Elvis freaking Presley. </p>
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<p><em>“But Bradley, I don't know any children's songs.” </em></p>
<p>Well, I'm quite certain that isn't entirely true. I'm guessing that if you thought about it, you could remember some favorites from your childhood. How about ‘She’ll Be Coming Round the Mountain?’ Surely you remember at least a few verses of that one! ‘I’ve Been Working on the Railroad?’ Nothing beats a good workin’ song. ’Hot Cross Buns?’ ‘If You’re Happy & You Know It?’ The list goes on & on. </p>
<p>And you know what’s best of all? You don’t even have to sing children's songs. Sing them your favorite Pearl Jam song or maybe some Johnny Cash. You may have to edit a line or two for content, but you'll be sharing tunes that are important to you, and raising a child with great musical taste! </p>
<p>I haven’t told you the coolest part of singing children’s songs; you can make up your very own! </p>
<p>Sing about your baby's favorite food or what you see on your daily walk. Sing about bath time or the weird thing the kitten just did. Sing about the moon or the funny car that just drove by. See what I'm getting at here? You can sing about anything you want. I recorded an album of lullabies built around nonsense lyrics and melodies I made up during my 2am feedings with my son (or at least the ones I still remembered the next day). Tunes like 'Full Belly, Empty Butt' & 'Don't Fight the Sleep' may never top the charts, but they represent very important moments that we shared. </p>
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<p><em>“But Bradley, I'm embarrassed.”</em> </p>
<p>First, I'd be willing to bet that you've done a lot of embarrassing things in your life. You're thinking about them right now, aren't you? Maybe later, if I have a bit of time, I'll call up your college buddies for some stories, but for now, I'll simply make this point; At least this embarrassment will result in a happy, healthy, well adjusted child. Besides, if you’re already a parent, you know that embarrassment, along with modesty & sleep, flew out the window the day your baby was born. </p>
<p>Second, we're talking about singing to the least judgemental person in the world. Did I mention that your baby worships you? In their eyes, you can do no wrong. Your voice is the most beautiful voice they've ever heard (or second to their mother's). Sing! Even if other people are around. Sing! At the very least, bystanders will find it adorable and endearing. Who knows, it may even inspire them to sing to their own child. So sing, you adorable trendsetter, you! </p>
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<h4>Sing to your baby. Sing to your baby every day.</h4>
<p>They'll love it. Nevermind the enormous benefits it is having on their beautifully complex and rapidly developing brain. Nevermind that you're instilling in them a lifetime of appreciation for music and the arts. Nevermind that you may be raising the next Paul McCartney or Beyonce. Sing to them for the smile it brings to their tiny face. Sing to them for the smile it brings to your tired, unwashed face. Sing to them knowing that soon they will be singing with you and it will be the most beautiful song the world has ever heard. </p>
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<h4>Sing to your baby. Sing to your baby every day. </h4>
<h4>Oh, and dance with your baby. Dance with your baby every day.</h4>
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<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/60727482016-03-07T17:00:00-07:002020-01-15T22:55:28-07:00New Children's Album!<p><a data-imported="1" href="http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/bradleyweaver4"><img src="//d10j3mvrs1suex.cloudfront.net/u/393632/57bef600d4dc4f95dccbe2d166687f27dee90a4d/original/letsmakesomemusiccover.jpg/!!/b%3AWyJyZXNpemU6MTUweDE0NyJd.jpg" class="size_orig justify_inline border_" alt="" height="147" width="150" /></a></p>
<p>My new children's album, 'Let's Make Some Music' is now available on all major streaming services!!!</p>
<p>You can buy CDs or downloads at <span style="color:#99cc00"><a data-imported="1" href="http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/bradleyweaver4"><span style="color:#99cc00">CDBaby</span></a></span> or name your price for downloads at <span style="color:#3366ff"><a data-imported="1" href="http://www.nimbit.com/bradleyweavermusic"><span style="color:#3366ff">Nimbit</span></a></span>.</p>
<p> </p>Bradley Weavertag:bradleyweaver.net,2005:Post/60727462015-06-07T18:00:00-06:002022-05-09T02:03:45-06:00Sing Me A Story
<p><a href="http://singmeastory.org/songwriter/campaigns/321" data-imported="1">Sing Me A Story</a></p>
<p>So, I started writing this song over a year ago & I finally had time to record it. Sing Me A Story is a fantastic non-profit, out of Nashville, that partners with other non-profits who help children in need. These children, from throughout the world, submit stories & pictures to Sing Me A Story. Songwriters can search through these stories & bring them to life in a song.</p>
<p>I found a story, written by a 6 year old named Noah, to be particularly song-worthy. Noah (who is probably 8 by now!) was at a place called Gilda's Club, in Nashville. *Gilda's Club is a support center for anyone affected by any type of cancer, including family members.</p>
<p>So, please check out Sing Me A Story & all of their wonderful partners. Also, check out my song & if you enjoy it, please donate. A donation as small as $1 gets you a free download of 'Lots of Dinosaurs'. </p>
<p>Thank you Noah. I hope you like the song.</p>
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Bradley Weaver